love is kind, love is patient,...

...and and its really really hard, in fact its probably the hardest thing that any of us will ever attempt but what what's the point in life? to go through it with the least amount of wear n tear as possible? or to live it? so you take a chance on someone. it starts with that little spark. its the greatest part. everybody loves that part, and that person makes the toughest times better by helping you out in what makes them crazy, and then you start disagreeing on what movie to see, or you forget a birthday. you start fighting about how you want the napkins. swans? and then you're mad and she's mad and all of a sudden it seems so easy to just get out, to run away, but its weird, the universe always sends you a sign that you're making a big mistake- a piano lands on your head, or a horse gets loose and delays an entire wedding. what the universe is trying to tell you is that when you find the person that makes your life a crazy mess, they're one in a million, and you can't ever let them go; you just can't.